I am soooooo tired of seeing the same things over and over and OVER for weddings. These day’s its acceptable to have something different – step OUT of the box for cryin out loud – be different – be bold – be YOU!
I must say this post was inspired by my friend April Dorsey at The DTales and her AWESOME wedding featured on Rock n Roll Bride (this is a big deal). This couple had such cool elements to their wedding that was really a reflection of who they are as a couple.

Every couple has things that are unique to them and should infuse those into their event. If you have a gagillion dollar clown collection then have clowns at your wedding (not really but maybe clown colors). When I got married almost 24 years ago I wanted a pink dress – my Mother said no way – so I had a white one (sigh) huge mistake. The point is this is your chance to really show off YOU. The one think I’ve preached to my children everyday is “Don’t be ordinary”. Show off what makes you unique as a couple. Don’t go crazy now, sometimes subtle is better (sometimes, not always). Here are some ideas on infusing your style and personality into your wedding!
Theme – choosing a theme can be tricky. Having a theme doesn’t mean that every aspect of the wedding has to relate to the “theme”. Your theme is really an overall “feeling” for your wedding. Think about what you and your fiancé like to do on dates, where you like to dine, or vacation. Choose a look and feel that really portrays who you are as a couple. A good designer will give you tons of ideas on how to make the most of your theme.
Stationery – Stationery is a great way to showcase your personality. Remember that your invitation is the first glimpse of your wedding. Through your choice of stationery and verbiage your guests will be able determine not only the formality of your event, but a little about the overall style of the wedding. Your planner will offer you suggestions on verbiage etiquette as well as choices of paper weight and colors.
Menu Selection – Choosing your food should reflect the taste and style of the couple. If you and your fiancé love simple things, then offer simple menu choices that complement the wedding as a whole. On the other hand, if you have a sophisticated palette you should certainly offer more sophisticated choices. Keep in mind to serve food that all of your guests will enjoy. Your wedding planner will direct you to caterers who will help you prepare a flawless menu that will leave your guests satisfied and happy (but not too happy, there is dancing to be done!).
Décor & Details Details Details – By far the BEST PART! A flawless design is what says the most about you as a couple. When your guests walk into your ceremony and reception, the first thing they should think is “this is so (insert names here)”! If you are a casual couple who love the outdoors then don’t showcase your wedding as “old Hollywood glamour”, choose décor that brings the outside in. If you and your fiancé are wine enthusiasts, then think of Vineyard inspired décor. The sky is the limit if you think outside of the box and use what you know – yourself and your fiancé!
Fashion – This is the number one way to “wow” your guests and show them your own personal style. Often times the Bride gets so caught up in the opinions of everyone around her that she ends up wearing a gown that is not uniquely “her”. You must let those close to you know that the gown choice is ultimately yours, not theirs, and although you value their opinion, you will choose what makes you feel best.
Enjoy!
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